Today I’ll let you in on why you might be bad and how to fix it in one simple step!
So what if they’re looking at you honey? You’re damn beautiful! They can’t help it! Let them see you and have the best day!
Thinking everyone’s looking at you because you’re bizarre or because there’s something wrong with you is no different from needing to look perfect and flawless all the time in the presence of any human being.
That’s the direct consequence of being heavily criticized as a child by a constricting adult that had lots of ascendence over you. Someone who felt pleasure in now being the powerful abuser they had to put up with throughout their entire childhood. Abused becoming the abuser; classic.
Critics are your biggest fans. They see your power and are scared to death of it; first because if you prove that’s possible to go further and higher, their excuses for staying stuck will fall short. Second, because they’re stuck in the pyramidal egoic perception that says only one human reaches the top. The rest drowns and dies. That’s survival mode combined with dense scarcity, creating competition and desperation for control.
Does it make it ok for them to criticize you that much and judge everything they see in you, using the most hurtful words they can possibly find?
NO! NOT FOR ONE SECOND!
It does mean though that every aggressive comment they make about you carries awe and admiration in disguise. That’s why you should make 2 very important moves:
- Getting away from them or keeping them at a super safe distance means you being polite and giving them nothing more than that.
- Finally understand they don’t mean what they say, because even though they’re nasty as hell, the meanness covers up their true thoughts and feelings about you. So if they don’t believe what they say, why should you?
You’ll never be criticized by someone doing equally or more than you for their dreams. You’ll only be criticized by people doing less than you for their dreams.
ATTENTION! You might be bad because you do the exact same thing they do when you react and give them attention. Here’s why & how to fix it:
When you engage with hatred and disrespect, worry about haters and their opinions, or even if you respond in any way (trying to please them at any cost or explain yourself to them). If you adress the haters (let’s put it that way), you freely give your energy to them. The beautiful energy God put inside you to manifest and create great things – including the life you were meant to live – is wasted on someone that guarantees you’ll feel like a piece of sh*t. So you disrespect and hurt yourself.
Also, if you believe what they say, feel bad about who you are, and try to change yourself to be more adequate, lovable, and accepted, you don’t know yourself at all. If you did you would know what they say is:
- True, therefore there’s nothing new, surprising, humiliating, or hurtful about it.
- Or false, therefore they don’t know what they’re talking about so why the hell would you be worried about trying to fix it? You should be worried about their mental conditions. LOL
Come closer so we can go through this together: If you constantly want to prove them wrong, it means they’re wrong about you, so why are you so concerned?
If you were the person they say you are, you would be having piñatas and chilling because – YES! – they nailed it like pros! But that’s not the case is it? You’re trying to prove them worng which in essence means begging for them to see you as you are.
So, can I suggest something much more loving?
Go spend energy on people who have the capacity to see you already because those are the ones compatible with your energy frequency. Leave the others behind because you’re forcing your energy to lower in orrder to match theirs and that’s not good for you, for them, for the Universe, for anybody!
Stop feeding their crazy unbalanced egos and their huge wounds! You know better than that! A good old HELL NO! Can be just what they need to go higher! Try it out and let me know how it goes!
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See you tomorrow gorgeous!
Keep shining bright!!!!!
Much love,
Cá!