Smile – the demand that’s pushed you away from love until now and has hurt your soul tremendously. Today I’ll teach you how to:
- End the numbness
- Block the energy drain that’s been allowing people to suck the life out of you
- Set clear boundaries and stick to them
- Attract real relationships that are aligned with your soul.
I remember the thousands of times I smiled when it wasn’t funny, appropriate, fair, or even remotely acceptable. It hurts. It hurts so much that you soon begin to leave your body and shut down trying to protect your honor and stay alive for a while longer. And the way to do it is through numbness.
But it’s impossible to compartmentalize, so it takes over your life through numbing feelings, words, actions, and reactions of any kind (even the good ones!); not only what you were aiming to numb in the first place. Diminishing your capacity to stand up for yourself and connect with people who want the best for you.
Those who don’t feel attract those who don’t want to feel.
You begin to attract every single troubled human being who refuses to take care of themselves and heal their wounds properly. Your body becomes a dump for others’ rubbish which makes your energy frequency spiral down at a very high speed, meaning your body begins to lose vital energy and vitality nonstop, at the speed of light.
Those who don’t want to feel deposit all their denied negative feelings and stored painful memories in the bodies of those who chose to be numb.
The allowance of people sucking the life out of you with no need for giving something in return [and no limits] proves you can’t trust yourself because you don’t have your best interest. That’s where anxiety comes from; not trusting yourself. The root of this lack of trust is your own denial of what you allowed others to do to you.
Denial means the wound is so big you have a hard time facing and processing it. You pretend it’s not there and freak out – when someone comes too close to you – in a desperate attempt to repel them because they’re too close to something you still haven’t made peace with. It’s not under your control. And it’s almost exposing what you’ve been hiding for decades.
Just like you can’t numb only what hurts you, you also can’t hide just what you refuse to face. So what also gets hidden is your true self – the person you were meant to be – including dreams, desires, wants, needs, boundaries, and self-respect. Every single aspect of being human that’s connected to your true self is shoved in the darkest tinniest place inside your Soul. That is everything, all of you no exceptions.
All that’s left is the persona you created to please others, hide who you are, and keep them pleased even if it costs you your Soul. That’s what your smile carries.
And that’s why you constantly try to improve your persona desperately trying to attract the love of your life through being perfect. But true love is not perfect. Is soulful. If your Soul is shoved in the dark and has absolutely no room to manifest and speak through your body in your life, how the hell can you attract something compatible with it? No one can even feel it, let alone know what it is to go after it!
Attraction means emitting signals (electromagnetic waves) and attracting exactly that in the shape of experiences, people, places, situations, opportunities, etc. If there are no soulful waves, there will be no attraction. And if what you emit are fake persona waves, that’s what will come back at you.
There’s no way unconditional love will knock at your door because you’re lying about who you are. What will come instead is every single liar humankind has been able to produce in this lifetime.
Why should somebody claim you if YOU won’t claim yourself?
Here’s how to solve this huge issue:
1 – To end numbness you must trigger an anger explosion.
2 – To block the energy drain you must first know where it is in your body. Then discover what – about and in you – you’re afraid to face.
The day you face the aspects of you that you’ve been denying, is the day the drain disappears.
3 – To set clear boundaries and stick to them you must take your focus off of others and put it in yourself. You MUST get to know yourself in detail; faults, qualities, light, shade, and everything in between. That means stopping speaking and thinking about others, and focusing on yourself from a space of curiosity and will to explore.
4 – To attract real relationships that are aligned with your soul, you must bury the persona and become who you were meant to be from day one.
We’ll do all of that in practice at my brand new healing session La Ansiedad, so buy it and let’s get to work! I love engaging and working with people who want to change and are more than willing to do the work!!!!!! Há! See you there gorgeous!