Today I’ll show you how to recognize if he’s insecure and what’s it doing to your relationship. I’ll also teach you how to read between the lines because not every sign is obvious.
The past few months my healing sessions have been a crazy mix of complaints about the same subject: I feel like he’s always putting me down and trying to make me little so that he doesn’t have to step up and handle me in my full power.
TBH the vast majority of these complaints come from straight women and gay men, that’s why the HE was so clearly used in the title.
I know for a fact that women and gay men are stepping up big time and working hard on evolving, breaking barriers, and occupying new spaces. Evidently, the result is that their partners who always had it easy are struggling to keep up. It’s a process and we must keep in mind that this is just cause and consequence. The one who has to work the hardest is the one who ends up bringing the most excellence.
As much as it is part of the process, I’ve lived enough to know that attack is the best defense, so the more someone attacks you, the more intimidated and scared they are of you. The problem is, that if you don’t know that yet, you end up thinking that you’re not enough because that’s how our minds are framed due to all the conditioning. We’re trained from birth to think that others’ problems are ours and we confuse concepts to the point where we do the exact opposite of what’s loving.
Before any change can happen, it’s important to secure everybody’s well-being, so first I made this video explaining exactly how men give away their insecurities, to inform women and bring them to a place of equality. Later, very slowly, we’ll talk more about how to handle this in a loving way and create change that’s good for everybody. Everything in its time.
If you want to give it a boost and go further on detaching from past mistakes in your relationships, we have a fill-in-the-blank sheet that’s like Pandora’s box and it can take you to the next levels of being a Goddess.
Let me know how it goes!!!
Much love,
Cá – The Cape Witch
